Typicality of human behaviour across globe

Greetings to all !!! Came back again.

Again its my observation which I am sharing. We talk about country, nation and unity with respect to any other nation. My boss once said "I don't believe in borders and countries, human drew some lines  on the earth and created borders". At that moment of time i wanted to reply that even i don't believe but ya the necessity arises for better administration. Like our country is divided into states cities and then families for better administration and well being. I did not reply then, don't know why.

I love my country, its richness of culture and tradition, rituals, respect for elders, and especially woman  for the kind of dignity they maintain. Somehow the culture of west of too much openness doesn't appeal to me, it makes me think women just as mere object of pleasure for man although thousands of people might have different view point altogether. I abide by that also.The way one feels good and comfortable.

I am also pretty open in my talks and tend to oppose when i don't feel things right. For me also few people might have the same opinion as I had above.

I traveled almost across India as my father had transferable job. I grew up at different places and experienced different cultures and also staying in banks apartment exposed us to people from different states.

I came across parent's typical nature of protectiveness towards their children, tension of mothers for their daughter's marriage, mom's guiding daughters at every point and dad's looking after son and this nature of humans is not just across India but across globe as this is science, psychology and phases of life.

As a kid I used to feel that i would not be a mom like my mom in many aspects but then moms are moms and what changes across generation is vast pool of knowledge, discoveries, new creations, upper versions, acceptanace and understanding.

Clashes happen coz communication is always incomplete and due to mismatch of mental wavelength and incapability to understand the other person's side. At times we enjoy these differences and at times we detest them.At times we try to look for that "me" within us and at times we enjoy the status of "us" - the family as we call, the family as we say would do anything for its members.

There is so many shades of emotions inside us which keeps chnaging every moment. The most important thing to me is to stay happy and how do we do that.........probably by reaching an optimum level - a terminology used in Science but how do we reach that optimum level and exist in harmony with each other and the answer lies in  balance of emotions, actions, reactions.

The act of balancing is the most tough task. Are we really able to balance? Dont we get driven by one emotion over the other? Doesn't one wrong happening affect us throughout life? Isn't our past responsible for our present? Can we get away with it? Can we......................................?????????????????

Ultimately it seems like in an organization where all the process and systems are set, this earth is a bigger organization where in the hierarchy of positions defined, process and systems and rules of life set, how to live, how to speak, how to percive all boundaries set and thses boundaries are much bigger than the bounderies set by humans on earth. these mental boundaries are much strong and much tough to break.

I just wish if these mental boundaries could vanish and we could stay in harmony, i wish what i said would have been understood the same way, I wish i could do what i felt right, i wish i could listen to my heart and follow it instead of following a routine, i wish i could be free to express when I was happy or when i felt bad, I wish i jsut could be myself without stepping into other's boundary. I wish.............................At times, I feel these wishes never come true but then there came a new term into existence .....HOPE........................